"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you,
and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, '...that's her.'"
-Anonymous
wHaT??!!! a black woman cant be named Anonymous??
ReplyDeletelol. NO!!! you should know that. And THAT is why you can't find a job!!! (unless you a black woman!! then they gots to hire you!)
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m7nCyodUDrQ
Sounds like a chick flick...
ReplyDeleteWell here's for dreaming!
ReplyDeleteI like the poem. And yeah, I think it's true.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how hard i look i cant seem to find a guy like that, so i took the FB quiz and it turns out i put my carrier before men. :-)
ReplyDeleteSeriously though what should guys look for?
You, a guy, are asking me, a girl, what a guy should look for in a girl? I'm guessing this was written by a girl, so buddy, you gotta write it yourself. But heres a try. I'll write it as a new post.
ReplyDeleteThere is only the man Hashem has determined is your soulmate, but he won't be perfect, nor will you be perfect, nor will your relationship be perfect, it will all require work, but that is what Hashem wants, for something worth having, is something worth working on and putting blood, sweat, and tears into.
ReplyDeleteI felt that I would post it here, as well as on Shorty's blog, since you liked it so much.
Thanks! Welcome to my blog! (I still like your quote!)
ReplyDeleteWow, awesome quote! Wonder where you got it from. ;)
ReplyDeleteBe the girl who knows she is beautiful, be the girl who stays on the phone as long as he needs you. Be the girl who wants him to get a good night's rest.
ReplyDeleteBe the girl who is open to love, the girl who wants to look good for her man. Be the girl who gives her man space to be with his friends.
Be confident in the fact that you deserve care and love and make sure he knows just how lucky he is to have you.
Then you'll find the one who turns to his friends and says, '...that's her.'
Seriously, what is up with all this selfish crap. Relationships are work!